Simple Act of Kindness – Makes a Big Difference.

In 2012 ( I think) I had the blessing of seeing Dr Wayne Dyer on stage in Sydney – he was taking about his book I Can See Clearly Now. Brilliant book, brilliant man.

What happened during that event was unexpected and very impactful to my life and the life of another beautiful woman, Danielle.

Dr Dyer brought Anita Moorjani onto the stage to share her story of coming back from death, completely healed and with new awareness which she continues to share today. I highly recommend her book pictured above.

Listening to her story I knew ( strong intuition) that I needed to buy a copy of her book.

The book wasn’t for me, in fact I didn’t know who it was for but I knew I would be guided to gift it to someone at the right time. I purchased the book and went on to enjoy the rest of the event.

Some days later I saw a young woman, Danielle who I had noticed some years earlier having clearly gone through chemo therapy only this time she was fragile and very thin.

My heart went out to her and her young family, she was a mumma of 3.

I realised the book was for Danielle.

With the deepest respect I approached Danielle’s husband and shared with him the guidance I received to purchase the book and asked if it would be ok if I sent the book to them, he responded with ” at this point, I am open to anything, so yes please”. He gave me their postal address and I went immediately home and collected the book, quickly whited out my name in the front cover, I was purely the messenger, and posted the book. I felt content I had completed my divine mission and got on with things.

Some weeks later I received a Facebook message from Danielle – she said ” I’m not sure if you are the right person, however I received a book that had your name in it and if you know the person who gave it to me, could you please thank them for me. Receiving and reading this book has changed my entire perspective of my illness, I now feel calm and at peace”.

Danielle passed away sometime later. I did connect with her husband and mother in law years later and they both reiterated the significance the book made to her.

I continue to share books when guided, I do it in Danielle’s name to remind me that we make a difference by being kind and following the divine guidance we receive.

Such a simple act of kindness can make a huge difference.

Id love to hear your stories of Acts of Kindness, please share in the comments.

Abundant Blessings,


Drawing A Line in The Sand – An Act of Self Care



Sometimes you just have to draw a line in the sand and say enough is enough as a matter of Self Care.

I tend to be a fairly tolerant person, giving others space to be who they are and allowing their self expression until it gets to a point where I feel ok I have had enough of hearing the negativity or victim or what ever disempowering way might be being expressed.

I do this myself, I have negative thoughts and I allow my mind to tell scary stories which I buy into also so I call it out on myself when I become aware of it so I am not looking to make anyone wrong.

I have a couple of people in my life who choose ( though they may argue they are choosing) to play the victim, to hand their responsibility over to others and I offer positive reminders as well as giving space however there are times that I feel I must draw a line in the sand and take back my space, my energy and create some new boundaries for my own well being.

I place a high priority on my own personal growth and development and I am blessed to surround myself with like minded folk who do the same, who take responsibility for the energy they bring and I am extremely grateful for all of them. I am taking about the couple of people who choose to function a different way.

If you are experiencing some negative Nancie’s or Neil’s or who ever in your life, maybe its time to draw a line in the sand for yourself.

It doesn’t have to be confrontational – its more a decision we make to take care of ourselves and our energy and stop allowing others to pollute our space.

We don’t have control over others however we can control how much we allow them to affect our space.

I have created some boundaries by, limiting how often I do things for this person, how often I answer the phone  when they call or how often I spend time dealing with their stuff. If its someone you have a commitment to supporting, as is the case with this person for me – setting boundaries that support you is a great way forward.

If its someone you can have a  respectful, clear and kind conversation with, then do so. Sometimes we all need a reminder of who we are being and if we don’t do it for ourselves a loved one may do it for us.

At this time of year we may spend time with people that can be a little tricky – don’t start world war 3 – find your way to minimise the impact on you – meditate often and get yourself in the best vibrational space you can and have a plan to move away from the energy when it gets too much.

Its important, especially for sensitive people to take good care of your environment and your space. Its called self care – drawing a line in the sand is a form of self care.


As always i love to hear from you so let me know your thoughts and any tips you may to offer our light worker community.

Abundant Blessings,



You Say You Want Success – But Are You Collapsing The Field?

Its all about alignment

In our 17 day Transformational Digital Program there is a topic covered called collapsing the Field.
Its a powerful concept and when understood we get to know how we so often get in our own way by letting our mind take over which can cause lack of action. It can stop us taking the steps we require to create the success we desire and say we want.

Let me put that in real terms – lets say I want to build a successful Healing or Coaching Business – my desire is to share my gifts and support others and create financial abundance.
Its fair to say that if I have not created that yet then I am not a vibrational match to that desire, yet. That means I will be required to shift my energy by changing my actions, my sequence of actions, my thinking, my commitment and my willingness to learn new ways which of course is going to be uncomfortable.

Now unless we are super determined and committed to our success we will collapse the field – block the divine guidance we are receiving by being more invested in where we are than where we want to be. WE may even blame others or something outside of ourselves as to why we haven’t progressed.

Sound familiar? I know I can totally relate to this – so what do we do to shift the energy and be open to new ways.

Firstly, we have to decide to succeed. Seriously so many miss this step.

We must have a clear goal or intention – not just I want to help others but I want to help 20 people to improve their financial abundance by offering my online program – this year. ( What, how and when).
Then we get to work on ourselves – commit to expand our own knowledge, thinking , mindset and ultimately vibration and keep committing to it – until.

There is a 80/20 rule that exists and seems to be true – 20% of the people will do what it takes to create the 80% of the wealth, health or what ever area you choose.

We get to decide, am I more invested in being right and staying where I am or am I truly willing to do what it takes to get the job done?

We have all been shaken up this year and as it comes to close to the year end, ask yourself – are you a better version of yourself than at the beginning of the year or not?

If you are ready to keep your filed open and would love some support book a Free Discover Session with me to discuss your options.

As always, Abundant Blessings,
Kym ❤

Declutter Your Life to Allow More Flow

Declutter Your Life To Allow More Flow
This was a powerful topic of one of our internal training calls for my Online Business this week and I have been really delving deep.

Now we all know, well I am assuming we all know that to live in a tidy environment and work in an organised space is a much healthier, happier energy for us. So I did a quick check of my office, moved a few things and put away a few more etc however what I have been focusing on is my mind, my emotions and where I have been hanging on to old sh%$.

So lets take money and business as a example, but you can apply this to any area that you would like to energise.
I have been running my current business’s for 10 years and I realised that some of my practises like money accounting and marketing have still been stuck in the initial set up, more survival stage. I hadn’t been taking the time to look at the bigger picture and look at were these practises really serving a maturing business.
I have to say it was a bit of slap in the face moment, and before any of you awesome well business trained people gasp in horror, let me remind you, like most small business owners I am self trained.

Of course looking at all of this is also quite triggering emotionally. Through this decluttering process I have let go of past mistakes and wounds and shames because they were holding my energy at a slower vibration. Lets face it we, well I at least hold on to this stuff much longer than is necessary or useful. Why? either because I wasn’t ready to confront them or I was hanging on in fear that if I didn’t I would repeat history.

My waste basket has been abundant with wet tissues that have mopped up the flow of tears as I realised and released so much crap.
My journal has had a pretty good work out also.

We all have stories and those are part of what shapes us, however we don’t have to continue to carry the heaviness of them around.
Forgive your past, release it and declutter your energy to allow a beautiful flow of new invigorating joy and pleasure at who you are and who you are choosing to be.

I wonder what you will choose to declutter from your life!

As always , I welcome your connection and your comments.

Abundant Blessings,
Kym ❣♥

Life Happens For Me, Not To Me

Byron Katie

When we resonate and accept the above words as truth our lives take on a whole new perspective.

Earlier this week doing one of my biweekly Facebook Lives Cups Of Tea with Kym Light Workers Hub
584/ I introduced the idea that we choose our parents.

This idea brought up quite a bit of discussion and I got the sense there was some emotional triggering happening. I totally understand as I had a rather prickly relationship with my mum. I loved ( love) my mum dearly however her pain often triggered my pain and that created a challenging dance.

Many years ago, I attended a weekend workshop and part of the process’s presented was to share with the group our mothers story. We got to stand up and speak as if we were our mothers and telling their story as if we were them. Oh Boy, this changed my life, my compassion instantly grew for mum and the path she had walked.
This year it will be 10 years since my mum left her body and my perspective and understanding of why I chose her has deepened.
I see that through my choosing her I got to experience fierce independence at an early age, I learned to break some rules and to walk my own path. I also learned generosity and kindness are beautiful qualities that have served me well. The depth of my love and respect for my mum continues to expand.

Perhaps if this is a challenging thought for you, with either of your parents, perhaps try the exercise of telling their life story as if you were them.
I also have a cups of Tea with Mum exercise which is very powerful. Ill share more of this in my up coming program and also on my Podcast.

When we choose to see that we live in a friendly universe which is constantly supporting our soul on its journey life takes on some beautiful and sometimes magical qualities.

Feel free to message me if you have further questions or with to share your insights.

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Honouring All Parts of Oursleves

Meditation, guidance, life coach
Honouring all aspects of ourselves

We spend a lot of time and energy denying and making wrong, aspects of ourselves which we deem not good enough or worse that they shouldn’t exist.

What if we stopped fighting with those parts and instead acknowledged & embraced them.

For me, one part of I have fought for many years is my body. Somewhere in my early years I made a decision based on the evidence around me, namely my older sister that a round body was a wrong body.

To take a line from one of my favourite movie’s, Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth says, whilst eating pizza in Naples “I have no interest in being obese, but I am sick of constantly worrying about what food I just ate”.

I agree, I love food, I am a real foodie and whilst my goal is to be healthy and vibrant I am over feeling guilty for enjoying great food.

So during a recent mediation I decided to stop making my round body wrong, to stop the fight and to instead embrace and honour this beautiful vehicle which carried my babies and houses my soul.

What parts of you are making wrong and what would it be like to stop the war and embrace and honour all aspects of yourself, even the parts you aren’t proud off.

We all desire to be acknowledged and so too do the different aspects of us.

So next time you catch yourself resisting some part of yourself, stop, breath and acknowledge her, sit with her and listen to what she has t say. Notice how you feel. Make it a practise to honour and acknowledge all parts of you.

We will cover tools and practises to do this during my Share Your Unique Message program.

There are still a couple, literally 2, spots left for my Share Your Unique Message which starts in a couple of weeks.

Sending Some Extra Loving Kindness

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Have We Dropped The Ball?

I was reflecting when all this craziness began at the start of the year.
Here in Australia we had fires and then the world experienced lock down.
People were doing all sorts of extra loving kindness acts to support each other.

Whilst I am sure there is still lots of that happening I wonder have we dropped the ball and gotten use to this way of life?

Today in an effort to up my own game I am doing extra loving kindness meditation and be more mindful to ensure I am offering support where I can.
Here is my version of the loving kindness meditation

I continue to cook extra meals for my dad and some older women that I know. I am sure you are doing beautiful offerings too. Thank you for what you send out in to our world, it truly makes a difference.

Just a heads up, there are just 4 spaces left for the September Share Your Unique Message Program. I would suggest booking now.

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Abundant Blessings,

What is Your Deep Desire?

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After having a connection with my Coach/Mentor this week we talked about going deeper and serving from that place.

I shared that I have long felt that my work is to do the work on me.
Meaning – to journal, to understand and know myself authentically at deeper and deeper levels, through meditation, mindset, getting out of my comfort zone and learning from leaders who I respect and of course having my own coach & mentors. We function better with great support.

I have been sitting with what I deeply desire, asking myself what do I truly want.
My answer continues to be, I want to serve.
I want to serve women, like you – to believe in themselves again and to now you have what it takes to share your unique gifts with our world.

Our world needs your unique message, your audience is literally waiting for you.

Tomorrow is the last day to take up the Early Bird Special Price to join us on Share Your Unique Message Program.

Please do not let money be the reason you hold back, talk to me and we can work it out.

To secure your space or to learn more visit website;
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I feel truly humbled & Blessed to sit with such real and beautiful women.

Abundant Blessings,

Deep Listening is a Worthy Skill to Embrace.

At the very beginning of my coaching journey I spent several years as a co facilitator of women’s workshops. These were deeply connected and spiritual in nature, my role was of support. To be the best support person I could be, I learned to be very present, to pay attention to the how the women were responding and to listen deeply. When you don’t talk, we get to listen.

I consider these 7 years as a wonderful apprenticeship that continue to serve me well on my journey as a coach and healer.

With all the stimulation that exists in our world today, we are easily detracted. Because of these distractions we are reluctant to be still and listen and if only we realised how potent this simple act is, we would stop resisting and make it a priority in our day.

Have you ever noticed that when you are talking to someone, 2 sentences in, the other person has stopped listening and is already preparing what they are going to say. You can feel it and it doesn’t feel great.

When we practise listening deeply we not only honour the person who is sharing, we start to listen to ourselves, to our language, and to our souls whispers.

We have so much wisdom within us, if only we took the time to listen.

Do you feel like you are honouring your soul’s journey, do you even know what that is?

I love supporting your individual soul’s journey and to help you to live in your light.

If you are ready to take the next and honour your journey, I am listening.

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Connecting With Our Inner Child to Heal –

I have been a student of Personal Development for over 20 years, some of you know my story of reading the Dalai Lama’s book and it literally changed my life.

Personal Development encourages us to be positive, to look for what we are grateful for and to learn the lesson available and I agree these are wonderful and empowering skills and ways of being worthy of strengthening.

However, there is another piece to the puzzle – part of the commitment to expand consciousness, which is what most people who want to make a difference are motivated by,( may use different language) we must heal the wounds and not just stick a bandaid on them.

To heal our wounds they must be brought from the darkness, hidden, suppressed, compartmentalised to the light, to be acknowledged and transformed, healed.

I am not saying to go digging, I agree with the term ” if it ain’t broke don’t fix it”. I am talking about if something is holding us out from living a happy, fulfilled life then maybe there is something that requires healing.

There are many ways to heal and I am happy to share more of these in future emails.

Today I want to focus on a gentle and kind method of connecting with our inner child.

Over the weekend we watched a great Disney movie – Christopher Robbin – Euan McGregor plays a brilliant role and the story speaks exactly to this topic. I wont spoil it, Ill let you check it out for yourself.

I was reminded of the importance of connecting with our inner child, that free, fun loving, free spirited little being that was full of wisdom and wonder.

Some activities that I love to do to connect with my little Kym are taking myself on a picnic and maybe buying myself a cup cake or a sweet treat, taking a walk in nature looking for fairies, colouring in, playing on the playground equipment in the park. Watching Disney movies.

I pay attention to how I feel, often memories will bubble up and sometimes wounds can surface, this is when we get to acknowledge and reassure our younger self that we have our back and we are safe, cared for and acknowledge by our adult self.

This is a powerful and empowering way to heal those aspects of ourselves that maybe yearning for attention.

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Abundant Blessings,